I was talking to a good friend last week in the gym and she secretly told me about one of her projects right now - a project in her personal life! She said she was doing 12 dates with 12 different men! She wanted to do this since normally, she would not open up to guys she would not initially like. But since she wants to open up her world more, she's going out with twelve different guys in 12 different dates! She had her fourth date and fourth guy last night! Smart girl!!
Well, I will copy her idea and do my own twelve dates of twelve different men. I haven't thought of the list yet or at least the first 3 guys to go out with, but after Halloween, I will have my own fun! And of course, I will blog about it. However, this time, I will not use the gay dating site to meet men. I will thicken up my face and invite someone I've been seeing in the gym or someone I know or met in person! That would be more exciting, I think! My only problem with this set up is, what if I begin to like the guy I'm dating. And what if he's guy #4? Do I stop at #4? Oh well, no use worrying now when there's still no problem. I'll cross the bridge when I get there! Will I blog about it? You bet!!
I have a friendly date tonight with Joaquin. I met him through planetromeo and he seems very articulate and he has a nice picture too! We will meet in a coffee shop in a mall in Quezon City. Well, I am writing this so I can verbalize what I should do tonight so he and I will have a good time!1. Don't talk about yourself too much. I have a tendency to do this, so focus, instead on the person. Focus on Joaquin. Be interested in him. Look at his eyes and make him feel important and sexy.
2. Ask questions about him. Be inquisitive. Of course, focus on something light. No politics, no religion. It's just the first date. We can debate later.
3. Don't talk about my ex's. Even if he asks about them, don't talk about them. It's the first date!
3. If his picture really matches who he is in person, and if he looks hot and hygienic, have fun with him! I want to see also if we are sexually compatible in bed!
